Not Your Therapist
Life is messy, relationships are complicated, and let’s be real—mental health can feel like a full-time job. If you’re looking for down-to-earth, no-BS conversations about navigating stress, relationships, and personal growth, you’re in the right place.
I’m Kayla Reilly, a licensed therapist, entrepreneur, and real-life human who knows that wellness isn’t about perfection—it’s about finding what actually works for you. This show is for anyone who wants approachable mental health tools, relatable insights, and a little humor along the way.
Each episode, we break down the good, the bad, and the downright frustrating parts of life—from managing anxiety and breaking toxic patterns to setting boundaries and creating balance (without the guilt). No therapy jargon, no fluff—just real talk and practical strategies to help you feel more grounded in your everyday life.
Hit play, get comfortable, and let’s figure this life thing out together.
Not Your Therapist
Latest Episodes
The Truth About Going No Contact: I Think the New York Times Is Asking the Wrong Question
Are therapists really encouraging too many people to go no contact with their parents?The New York Times recently raised that question... and I think they're asking the wrong one.As a trauma therapist who works with adult c...
Dissociation Explained: Why Your Brain "Checks Out" (And How to Come Back)
What is dissociation, and why does it happen? In this episode of Not Your Therapist Podcast, licensed therapist Kayla Reilly explains dissociation in simple, relatable terms so you can understand why your brain "checks out" during...
What Is the Gray Rock Method? (And When Should You Actually Use It?)
What is the Gray Rock Method, and does it actually work? In this episode of Not Your Therapist Podcast, licensed therapist Kayla Reilly breaks down the psychology behind the Gray Rock Method, where it came from, who it was designe...
How to Handle Passive-Aggressive Comments From Emotionally Immature Family Members
Passive-aggressive comments from emotionally immature family members can leave you questioning yourself long after the conversation is over. In this episode of Not Your Therapist Podcast, licensed therapist Kayla Reilly breaks down the p...
Emotional Parentification: When You Became the Adult in the Room
Were you the "adult" in your childhood home — managing your parent's moods, mediating fights, or holding everyone else's feelings before you were ever allowed to have your own? That's called emotional parentification, and it's one of the most c...